I have a crush on my boyfriends guy friend. I have known him since the 1st date I went on with my current boyfriend and that has been like 4 years already. We hung out like 2 times back then and I was never really interested in him. 2 Months ago, we went to this show together and we sat next to each other and my boyfriend on my other side. We shared some chocolates together, but I still wasn’t that interested. We had 30 minute wait, and my boyfriend left to get some popcorn and me and him stayed together and we talked about a lot of things. My boyfriend came back and we switched seats cause he had bought beer for him and his friend and he wanted to drink next to him (lol) anyways, we enjoyed the show, it ended and we went home. That same night, he spent the night over and he was playing Battlefield and I love that game (I am a girl , by the way.) and I noticed that we had a lot in common, cause when we had our conversation, we agreed on a lot of things about school, work, and children. So when we were playing on the xbox, I got mad cause he kept playing and talking and I wanted to sleep! and he was in our bedroom ( i live with my boyfriend) but at the same time , i started to stare at him and he would look back at me to talk and he would look at me straight in the eyes for a while, that I would look away. A couple weeks ago, he came to hang out and play video games with my boyfriend, and I was so happy to see him. That same day, in our bedroom, my boyfriend left to get something, and me and him were left in an awkward moment, we looked at each other for a second , said something , he talked back and then it got quite. My boyfriend came back and they played video games together, and again, he would turn around, say something, I would look at him to pay attention to what he was saying about the game, and he would look at him, look away, then look at me and stare at me and I would look away 20 minutes later, we drove him home, we shook hands (1st time we shook hands goodbye) and left.
The next day, I couldn’t sleep, so i went online to play CoD and he was online. He sent me an invite to play Battlefield but I wanted to play CoD. So we got on and he was on his mic and played CoD. (me and my boyfriend use the same Online ID , so he didn’t know who it was) I turned my mic on, he heard it and said “Hello” I said “Hello” and we kept on playing but we were both quite. He would talk about what to do in the game, but that was about it. He then told me that he wanted to play Battlefield and said if I wanted to join him i could, I said “Alrighty Bye” , and said “Bye”. Since that day, he hasn’t logged on when I am logged on. Since he spent the night over at our apt. I started to develop a crush on him. and all I want to do is talk about him, and see him. I don’t know if I should tell him. Or if that would be wrong because he is my boyfriends friend. But me and my boyfriend are always arguing and I feel unhappy but at the same time, he is a sweet guy and I love that about him.
His friend is not my TYPE at all. I hate the type of person he is so I don’t know why i started to feel this way.
ANYWAYS>>> Thing is,
I don’t know if I should tell him that I like him , or keep quite. I don’t know if he likes me or not, cause I sometimes feel like he doesn’t wanna be around me :/
What do I do about the situation? do I just ignore it and pretend is nothing?


